However the first 6 months there were a lot more hurdles to overcome, which led to the relationship breaking down. Yes, I knew that he was divorced and had two children, but just knowing that he did want kids was to overcome the first hurdle of dating him.And one remains a trusted friend to this day (and I'm glad).So here goes -- one single mother's set of red flags when it comes to dating divorced men, culled from a very long decade of post-marital dating experience. Do be careful of the divorced man who is only recently out of his marriage.Having dated a divorced guy, I can speak from experience of what to do and the mistakes to avoid if you do decide to go down this path with a divorced guy, especially if they have kids.DATING MISTAKE 1: I ignored the signs of his opinion on kids.
Even if you’re the one who wanted out, there’s still going to be a big hole in your brain where your relationship used to live.
What’s more, guys who have been through a divorce generally aren’t in a huge hurry to get back on the horse and start dating again. At least as much as someone who has never been there can.
Sure, I’ve had my share of breakups that were hard to get through. When you go through a divorce a big part of who you were before changes.
So I decided to sit down and come up with an FAQ / survival guide for divorced guys who are looking to get back in the game.
It’s not going to be easy, but it’s necessary for you to completely heal and move on.